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Este es mi ultimo articulo del 2017 En Español "Lo que este AÑO me Enseñó" In English "What this year taught me" By: David gonzález Alegría ®
En Español "Lo que este AÑO me Enseñó" In English "What this year taught me"
By: David gonzález Alegría ®
Seguramente tienes a alguna persona cerca de ti que no está pasando por su mejor momento. O tal vez tú seas esa persona que en este año, 2017 cree que no le fue tan bien, como lo esperaba. O que tal vez tuvo una experiencia o un viaje inesperado.
Cualquiera que sea el motivo; he decidido darte un poco de la luz que queda dentro de mi corazón, para que te ayude a seguir adelante.
Mi nombre es: David gonzález Alegría ®
Soy Escritor Y Conferencista de Transformación y Evolución Personal de Los Estados Unidos de Norteamerica.
Quiero decirte: Que, una palabra de aliento en una circunstancia dificil, nunca está de más. Por muy larga que sea la tormenta, el sol siempre vuelve a brillar entre las nubes. Nada es para siempre, pues todo lo que comienza siempre tiene un fin. (excepto Dios).
En este año 2017, tuve varias experiencias inesperadas que me han dejado una gran enseñanza; entre ellas la pérdida de mi querida y adorada madre, Josefina Alegría Facundo (1945-2017) QEPD.
Es una pérdida irreparable, pero es la mejor experiencia de vida que DIos me ha dado durante 50 años. Es muy dificil asimilar ésta pérdida, pero al mismo tiempo es llevadera la comprension que se adquiere. Creánme que ha sido la mayor pérdida que he tenido en mis 50 años de vida. Pero al mismo tiempo ha sido mi mayor ganancia, que en mi vida he tenido.
Todo lo que hoy soy, se lo debo a mi madre, que ahora me cuida desde el cielo.
No necesitas el valor para el instante en que eres golpeado; sino en la larga ascención de regreso a la cordura, la fe y la seguridad. "Nuestra gloria más grande, no consiste en no haberse caído nunca; sino en haberse levantado despues de cada caída". dijo: Confucio.
En cada caída recibes un golpe muy fuerte, pero así mismo en cada levantada recibes la fuerza y el coraje para seguir adelante.
¿Cuántas caídas has tenido durante este año?
¿Cuántas veces estuviste a punto de perder la esperanza?
¿Cuántas veces te sentiste derrotado?
Nunca, nunca será tarde para buscar un mundo mejor y más nuevo; si en el empeño ponemos coraje y esperanza.
El fracaso consiste en no persistir, en desanimarse después de un error, en no levantarse después de caer, en no querer seguir adelante.
La esperanza hace que agite, el náufrago sus brazos en medio de las aguas, aun cuando no vea tierra por ningún lado.
Los grandes espíritus siempre han tenido que luchar contra la oposición feroz de mentes mediocres.
En la vida, y durante el año que termina no se puede cambiar lo que te niegas a afrontar; pues nadie, absolutamente nadie es perfecto. Cada uno de nosotros tiene problemas, así que no te menosprecies a ti mismo. Pues todo el mundo está luchando su guerra propia y única; unos de manera más valiente y otros de manera más sensible.
Recuerdo apenas, haber estado peleando en medio de una batalla valientemente junto con otros 49 seres humanos maravillosos, cuando recibí la dolorosa noticia de la muerte de mi querida madre. Fue un golpe muy fuerte que me debilitó por un cierto tiempo.
Recuerdo a mis 49 compañeros como se volcáron en solidaridad conmigo, vi como sintieron mi dolor y mi debilidad ante tal suceso.
El llanto, no significa que eres débil. Pues desde tu nacimiento, siempre ha sido una señal de que estás vivo y lleno de potencial.
En la vida no hay que esperar a que pase la tormenta; hay que aprender a bailar bajo la lluvia, y saber a ciencia cierta que los rencores son un obstáculo para tu felicidad. De modo que dejálos ir. Por muy fuerte que seas, nunca dejes que el éxito se suba a tu cabeza; y tampoco nunca dejes que el fracaso llegue a tu corazón para debilitarte. Pues la vida es un 10% de lo que te pasa; y el 90% como reaccionas ante lo que te pasa. De este modo, puedes aprender grandes cosas de tus errores, cuando no estés ocupado en negarlos. Y es por eso que debes renunciar a preocuparte de los que otros piensan de ti; pues lo que ellos piensan no es importante, lo importante es como te siente sobre ti mismo, o sobre ti misma. Cuando otras personas te traten mal, sigue siendo tu mismo, nunca dejes que la amargura cambie por completo la persona que en realidad eres. A veces permitimos que los problemas pequeños dominen nuestras vidas; que nos cobren unos dólares de más, es irritante, que hablen mal de nosotros, es irritante, pero no dejes que esto, te arruine el día; siempre habrán pequeños problemas que te irriten; el secreto está en ser capaz de darle el nivel minúsculo de la importancia que merecen.
Amigos y Amigas: Renunciar, no siempre significa ser débil; a veces eso significa, que eres lo suficiente fuerte y lo suficientemente inteligente, como para retroceder.
Pregúntate, si cada una de tus relaciones te arrastra hacia abajo, o te levanta hacia arriba. Rodéate de gente positiva y éxitosa, pasa más tiempo con aquellos que te hacen sonreír; y menos tiempo con los que te sientes presionado para impresionarlos.
Hay pocas cosas mejores en la vida, que una buena conversación, una buena lectura, una buena caminata, un buen abrazo, una buena sonrisa, un buen amigo o amiga.
No te detengas en el pasado, en el 2017; o te preocupes por el futuro, el 2018, demasiado tiempo. Mejor trata de vivir el presente.
No importa si eliges con cuidado tus palabras, siempre habrá alguien a tu alrededor que mal interprete lo que dices. Siéntete libre de decir lo que quieras, con el fin de ser creativos, de ser únicos; tenemos que perder el miedo a equivocarnos; piensa de manera profunda, que no conseguir lo que quieres, es aveces un maravilloso golpe de suerte.
Ser grande no significa que tienes que dominar a los demás, significa que tienes que dominarte a tí mismo y a tu propio potencial.
Si te apasiona algo, persíguelo, no importa lo que piensen los demás; así es como los sueños se logran, sin importar lo que los demás digan o dejen de decir.
Si sigues haciendo lo que estás haciendo, seguirás consiguiendo lo que estás consiguiendo hasta ahora.
El perdón es una de las claves principales de la felicidad. Perdónate a ti mismo, y perdona a los demás. La venganza, es la felicidad. Porque nada les hace más daño a tus adversarios, que verte sonreír.
Mantén siempre una actitud positiva, cuando estés rodeado de negatividad. Sonríe, cuando veas a otros fruncir el ceño, es una manera fácil de hacerte grande.
Si una persona quiere ser parte de tu vida, hará un esfuerzo evidente para lograrlo; no te molestes en reservar un espacio en tu corazón para las personas que no hacen un esfuerzo para conquistarlo. Hay muchos seres humanos, que estarían dispuestos a hacer cualquier cosa por conquistar tu corazón y tu persona.
No te arrepientas por la relaciones que no funcionan; porque solo te ayudarán a encontrar la pareja adecuada para ti.
El mundo real, no recompensa a los perfeccionistas; premia a las personas que hacen cosas, y la única manera de hacer las cosas es ser imperfecto el 99% del tiempo.
Sé honesto, sé real y di la verdad. Este compromiso te ayuda a tomar mejores decisiones y a ser una persona más fuerte. No te sientas culpable por estar enojado, siéntete culpable por ser cruel.
No reces cuando llueva, si tampoco rezas cuando el sol brilla. No te acuerdes de Dios, cuando te vaya mal; si tampoco te acuerdas de Él, cuando te va bien.
Los errores te enseñan lecciones importantes, el único error que realmente te puede hacer daño, es la elección de no hacer nada.Simplemente porque estás demasiado asustado para cometer un error.
El dinero, es un recurso renovable, si pierdes un poco de dinero, no te preocupes, siempre se puede hacer más.
El tiempo siempre es más valioso que el dinero.
No hay nada que te detenga, excepto tu mismo.
Solo hay algunas preguntas que debes hacerte:
¿Qué haría yo si no tuviera miedo?
Sería yo más capaz.
Qué me enseñó éste año?
A reconocer mis debilidades.
¿Qué cosas buenas me deja este 2017?
Amor, del bueno.
Qué me arrebató éste año?
Mi joya mas preciada: Mi Madre.
¿En qué crecí este año?
En Paciencia.
¿Qué aprendí éste año?
A ser más humilde, y que soy unser humano más en la vida.
A mi éste año, me arrebató mi joya más preciosa, mi madre. Pero también éste año me ha dado otras joyas invaluables: esperanza, fe, paciencia, perseverancia, fortaleza; mucha fortaleza, pero sobre todo me ha dado más amor a mi persona, de parte mia y de parte de otros seres humanos maravillosos.
Gracias mi Dios, por nunca olvidarte totalmente de mi.
Me quitas joyas invaluables, pero me das otras de gran valor también.
By: David gonzález Alegría ®
En Español "Lo que este AÑO me Enseñó" In English "What this year taught me"
By: David gonzález Alegría ®
Surely you have someone close to you who is not going through your best moment. Or maybe you are that person who in this year, 2017 believes that he did not do as well, as expected. Or maybe he had an unexpected experience or trip.
Whatever the reason; I have decided to give you a little of the light that remains inside my heart, so that it will help you to move forward.
My name is: David gonzález Alegría ®I am a writer and lecturer on Transformation and Personal Evolution of the United States of America. I want to tell you: That, a word of encouragement in a difficult circumstance, never hurts. However long the storm is, the sun always shines again among the clouds. Nothing is forever, because everything that begins always has an end. (except God).
In this year 2017, I had several unexpected experiences that have left me with a great teaching; among them the loss of my beloved and beloved mother, Josefina Alegría Facundo (1945-2017) RIP.
It is an irreparable loss, but it is the best life experience that God has given me for 50 years. It is very difficult to assimilate this loss, but at the same time it is bearable the understanding that is acquired. Believe me it has been the biggest loss I have had in my 50 years of life. But at the same time it has been my biggest gain, which in my life I have had.Everything that I am today, I owe to my mother, who now takes care of me from heaven.You do not need the courage for the moment you are hit; but in the long ascent back to sanity, faith and security. "Our greatest glory, is not to have never fallen, but to have risen after each fall." He said: Confucius.
In each fall you receive a very strong blow, but likewise in each lift you receive the strength and courage to keep going. How many falls have you had during this year? How many times were you on the verge of losing hope?
How many times did you feel defeated?
Never, never be late to look for a better and newer world; if in the effort we put courage and hope. Failure consists in not persisting, in discouraging oneself after a mistake, in not getting up after falling, in not wanting to move on. Hope causes the shipwreck to shake its arms in the middle of the waters, even when it does not see land anywhere.
The great spirits have always had to fight against the fierce opposition of mediocre minds.
In life, and during the year that is ending, you can not change what you refuse to face; Well nobody, absolutely nobody is perfect. Each one of us has problems, so do not belittle yourself. For everyone is fighting their own unique war; some more courageously and others more sensitively.I hardly remember, having been fighting bravely in the middle of a battle along with 49 other wonderful human beings, when I received the painful news of the death of my beloved mother. It was a very strong blow that weakened me for a certain time.
I remember my 49 companions as they turned in solidarity with me, I saw how they felt my pain and my weakness before such event. Crying does not mean you are weak. Since your birth, it has always been a sign that you are alive and full of potential.
In life we do not have to wait for the storm to pass; You have to learn to dance in the rain, and know for sure that grudges are an obstacle to your happiness. So let them go.
No matter how strong you are, never let success go to your head; And never let the failure reach your heart to weaken you. Well, life is 10% of what happens to you; and 90% how you react to what happens to you. In this way, you can learn great things from your mistakes, when you are not busy denying them. And that's why you should give up worrying about what others think of you; because what they think is not important, the important thing is how you feel about yourself, or about yourself. When other people treat you badly, remain your own, never let the bitterness completely change the person you really are. Sometimes we allow small problems to dominate our lives; that they charge us a few extra dollars, it is irritating, that they speak ill of us, it is irritating, but do not let this, ruin your day; there will always be small problems that irritate you; The secret lies in being able to give it the minuscule level of importance it deserves. Friends: Giving up does not always mean being weak; Sometimes that means, that you're strong enough and smart enough to step back. Ask yourself, if each one of your relationships drags you down, or lifts you up. Surround yourself with positive and successful people, spend more time with those who make you smile; and less time with those who feel pressured to impress them.There are few things better in life than a good conversation, a good read, a good walk, a good hug, a good smile, a good friend.
Do not stop in the past, in 2017; or worry about the future, 2018, too much time. Better try to live in the present.It does not matter if you choose your words carefully, there will always be someone around you who misinterprets what you say. Feel free to say what you want, in order to be creative, to be unique; we have to lose the fear of making mistakes; Think deeply, that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.Being great does not mean that you have to dominate others, it means that you have to dominate yourself and your own potential. If you are passionate about something, pursue it, no matter what others think; This is how dreams come true, no matter what others say or stop saying.If you keep doing what you are doing, you will continue to achieve what you are achieving so far. Forgiveness is one of the main keys to happiness. Forgive yourself, and forgive others. Revenge is happiness. Because nothing harms your adversaries more than seeing you smile.Always keep a positive attitude, when you are surrounded by negativity. Smile, when you see others frowning, it's an easy way to make yourself big.
If a person wants to be part of your life, he will make an obvious effort to achieve it; Do not bother to reserve a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to conquer it. There are many human beings, who would be willing to do anything to conquer your heart and your person. Do not regret about relationships that do not work; because they will only help you find the right partner for you. The real world does not reward the perfectionists; It rewards people who do things, and the only way to do things is to be imperfect 99% of the time.Be honest, be real and tell the truth. This commitment helps you make better decisions and be a stronger person. Do not feel guilty for being angry, feel guilty for being cruel.
Do not pray when it rains, if you do not pray when the sun shines. Do not remember God, when it goes badly for you; If you do not remember Him either, when you do well.
Mistakes teach you important lessons, the only mistake that can really hurt you is the choice to do nothing. Simply because you are too scared to make a mistake. Money is a renewable resource, if you lose a little money, do not worry, you can always do more. Time is always more valuable than money.
There is nothing that stops you, except yourself.
There are only a few questions you should ask yourself:
What would I do if I was not afraid? I would be more capable.
What did he teach me this year? To recognize my weaknesses.
What good things does this 2017 leave me? Good love.
What took me this year? My most precious jewel: My Mother.
How did I grow this year? In Patience.
What did I learn this year? To be more humble, and that I am a human being more in life.
To me this year, he snatched my most precious jewel, my mother. But this year also has given me other invaluable jewels: hope, faith, patience, perseverance, strength; Much strength, but above all it has given me more love to my person, from me and from other wonderful human beings.
Thank you, my God, for never completely forgetting about me.
You take out priceless jewels, but you give me others of great value too.
My name is: David gonzález Alegría ®I am a writer and lecturer on Transformation and Personal Evolution of the United States of America. I want to tell you: That, a word of encouragement in a difficult circumstance, never hurts. However long the storm is, the sun always shines again among the clouds. Nothing is forever, because everything that begins always has an end. (except God).
In this year 2017, I had several unexpected experiences that have left me with a great teaching; among them the loss of my beloved and beloved mother, Josefina Alegría Facundo (1945-2017) RIP.
It is an irreparable loss, but it is the best life experience that God has given me for 50 years. It is very difficult to assimilate this loss, but at the same time it is bearable the understanding that is acquired. Believe me it has been the biggest loss I have had in my 50 years of life. But at the same time it has been my biggest gain, which in my life I have had.Everything that I am today, I owe to my mother, who now takes care of me from heaven.You do not need the courage for the moment you are hit; but in the long ascent back to sanity, faith and security. "Our greatest glory, is not to have never fallen, but to have risen after each fall." He said: Confucius.
In each fall you receive a very strong blow, but likewise in each lift you receive the strength and courage to keep going. How many falls have you had during this year? How many times were you on the verge of losing hope?
How many times did you feel defeated?
Never, never be late to look for a better and newer world; if in the effort we put courage and hope. Failure consists in not persisting, in discouraging oneself after a mistake, in not getting up after falling, in not wanting to move on. Hope causes the shipwreck to shake its arms in the middle of the waters, even when it does not see land anywhere.
The great spirits have always had to fight against the fierce opposition of mediocre minds.
In life, and during the year that is ending, you can not change what you refuse to face; Well nobody, absolutely nobody is perfect. Each one of us has problems, so do not belittle yourself. For everyone is fighting their own unique war; some more courageously and others more sensitively.I hardly remember, having been fighting bravely in the middle of a battle along with 49 other wonderful human beings, when I received the painful news of the death of my beloved mother. It was a very strong blow that weakened me for a certain time.
I remember my 49 companions as they turned in solidarity with me, I saw how they felt my pain and my weakness before such event. Crying does not mean you are weak. Since your birth, it has always been a sign that you are alive and full of potential.
In life we do not have to wait for the storm to pass; You have to learn to dance in the rain, and know for sure that grudges are an obstacle to your happiness. So let them go.
No matter how strong you are, never let success go to your head; And never let the failure reach your heart to weaken you. Well, life is 10% of what happens to you; and 90% how you react to what happens to you. In this way, you can learn great things from your mistakes, when you are not busy denying them. And that's why you should give up worrying about what others think of you; because what they think is not important, the important thing is how you feel about yourself, or about yourself. When other people treat you badly, remain your own, never let the bitterness completely change the person you really are. Sometimes we allow small problems to dominate our lives; that they charge us a few extra dollars, it is irritating, that they speak ill of us, it is irritating, but do not let this, ruin your day; there will always be small problems that irritate you; The secret lies in being able to give it the minuscule level of importance it deserves. Friends: Giving up does not always mean being weak; Sometimes that means, that you're strong enough and smart enough to step back. Ask yourself, if each one of your relationships drags you down, or lifts you up. Surround yourself with positive and successful people, spend more time with those who make you smile; and less time with those who feel pressured to impress them.There are few things better in life than a good conversation, a good read, a good walk, a good hug, a good smile, a good friend.
Do not stop in the past, in 2017; or worry about the future, 2018, too much time. Better try to live in the present.It does not matter if you choose your words carefully, there will always be someone around you who misinterprets what you say. Feel free to say what you want, in order to be creative, to be unique; we have to lose the fear of making mistakes; Think deeply, that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.Being great does not mean that you have to dominate others, it means that you have to dominate yourself and your own potential. If you are passionate about something, pursue it, no matter what others think; This is how dreams come true, no matter what others say or stop saying.If you keep doing what you are doing, you will continue to achieve what you are achieving so far. Forgiveness is one of the main keys to happiness. Forgive yourself, and forgive others. Revenge is happiness. Because nothing harms your adversaries more than seeing you smile.Always keep a positive attitude, when you are surrounded by negativity. Smile, when you see others frowning, it's an easy way to make yourself big.
If a person wants to be part of your life, he will make an obvious effort to achieve it; Do not bother to reserve a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to conquer it. There are many human beings, who would be willing to do anything to conquer your heart and your person. Do not regret about relationships that do not work; because they will only help you find the right partner for you. The real world does not reward the perfectionists; It rewards people who do things, and the only way to do things is to be imperfect 99% of the time.Be honest, be real and tell the truth. This commitment helps you make better decisions and be a stronger person. Do not feel guilty for being angry, feel guilty for being cruel.
Do not pray when it rains, if you do not pray when the sun shines. Do not remember God, when it goes badly for you; If you do not remember Him either, when you do well.
Mistakes teach you important lessons, the only mistake that can really hurt you is the choice to do nothing. Simply because you are too scared to make a mistake. Money is a renewable resource, if you lose a little money, do not worry, you can always do more. Time is always more valuable than money.
There is nothing that stops you, except yourself.
There are only a few questions you should ask yourself:
What would I do if I was not afraid? I would be more capable.
What did he teach me this year? To recognize my weaknesses.
What good things does this 2017 leave me? Good love.
What took me this year? My most precious jewel: My Mother.
How did I grow this year? In Patience.
What did I learn this year? To be more humble, and that I am a human being more in life.
To me this year, he snatched my most precious jewel, my mother. But this year also has given me other invaluable jewels: hope, faith, patience, perseverance, strength; Much strength, but above all it has given me more love to my person, from me and from other wonderful human beings.
Thank you, my God, for never completely forgetting about me.
You take out priceless jewels, but you give me others of great value too.
By: David gonzález Alegría ®
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